If as a lady, the opposite sex do not find anything attractive in you, to the point of showing interest, or actually proposing, then something is wrong.
And we do not need to pretend about it. A woman is supposed to be alone, no matter how you look at it. And especially when it comes to hooking the man of your dreams, either for a relationship or the proverbial walk to to the altar, attraction plays an important part.
Think of it, even if you have the best manners of all ladies within the neighbourhood, or can be a real asset to any man, how would these qualities be discovered if there is no pull from you in the first place?
Your favourite platform, The Eagle, in this article, x-rays for you what has become an evolutionary secret that can help you understand how to attract men and make them desire you instantly.
To be able to attract a man is to know how a man’s mind works.
A guy may like a girl for different reasons, but when it comes to physical or sexual attraction at first sight, her physical appearance and her behavior matters more than anything else.
So if you want to attract a man and make him desire you, you just need to get his attention the right way. And the rest, as they say, is history!
You need to keep this in mind though, love and attraction are two completely different things. A guy may find you extremely attractive, yet he may not end up falling in love with you for his own reasons.
But for love to blossom in the first place, you need to build the sexual attraction before you make him fall in love with you. It’s the safest way to make sure the guy falls for you and stays in love with you
Attraction and how a man views a woman’s body
As we know that physical attraction plays a very big part in attracting a guy, you need to understand what a guy’s mind tells him when he sees you and sizes you up.
When a guy sees a girl’s physical assets, he subconsciously sees more than just your breasts or your butt. The right curves in all the right places tells a guy that a girl is fertile and has come of age, and that she’s healthy because her body can afford to waste energy on developing her curves which play the biggest role in sexual attraction.
A guy may think a girl is attractive. But in his subconscious mind, he’s gauging you as the woman who may carry his offspring one day.
Every man produces testosterone, a sexual hormone, in his testes. And women produce a small amount of testosterone in their ovaries. The more testosterone a man produces, the more manly he looks and the more sexually virile he is. His facial features appear manlier, his jaws are wider and more chiseled and his voice is deeper.
And several studies have shown that the more manly a man is, the more attracted he’d be to women who exhibit feminine traits.
On the other hand, a small percentage of men who produce a lesser-than-normal amount of testosterone may find themselves getting more attracted to women who are less feminine and more controlling and dominant in the relationship.
Be cute and sexy
While a girl’s physical appearance is the biggest sign of femininity, at times, it helps if you can display more femininity in your behavior. Tenderness for example, is for a girl, and not iron fist strength. In fact, when a woman begins to show off manly strength, she lets off a sign that could put off the average man. A man is unlikely to fall for same hard features as he has.
For women, there are indeed several ways to appear cute and sexy. Men have always been the more aggressive sex in the human species. They’re usually the ones who spread their legs wider, stand tall and swell their chest up while trying to appear threatening all the time, more so when they’re in an argument or when they meet someone they see as a threat in any manner.
The opposite is most likely the case for ladies. When a girl behaves in a cute and feminine manner, it brings out the protective instincts of a man. Instead of feeling threatened by a feminine girl, he feels protective about her.
That makes him feel more masculine, and that’s something every guy loves to feel!
Show your vulnerability sometimes
God has a reason why He gave us emotions, much more so to women. Those emotions are sometimes, perfect ways of showing vulnerability. And when a girl reveals her vulnerable side to a guy, it’s very hard for him to ignore her. In fact, he would like to step in and assist, and if already in, stick and see the end, so long it makes the women better at the end of the day.
Note that the instant his mind connects with her vulnerability, it eliminates any thoughts of a threat and his protective side creates a bond of protection and attachment with her.
He feels the need to be around her, and his subconscious mind tries very hard to make her feel protected, comfortable and loved around him. He loses his aggressive stance, the tone of his voice softens down, and his shoulders droop down towards her instead of spreading wide. And before he even gives attraction a second thought, he’d realize that he likes the girl already!
Many girls are against the idea of being feminine or behaving in a cute manner. To a typical feminist, behaving in a demure or coy manner is a sign of weakness. And they can’t accept that a guy finds a cute girl more attractive than a girl who likes to be a non-girlie girl, but that is actually the truth of the matter.
Learn the ways of femininity
There are truly behaviours expected of a woman. You may not naturally possess it, but nothing says you cannot learn it. If you want to know how to attract men, all you need to do is exude your feminine side while talking to them. And once you try that, you’ll know what I’m talking about.
And remember, a cute girl who displays her feminine side will always have an edge over all other girls when she’s trying to catch the attention of a real man!