WHAT DO YOU SEEK IN A LOVE RELATIONSHIP?

BY Olatunji Obisanya.O

When the purpose of a thing is not known, abuse is inevitable say’s a wise man.

Come to think of it, have you ever wondered why people go into a relationship? Could it be for the game of pleasure or for the purpose of trade by barter known as friends with benefits?

Well, I leave that for you to decide. Anyway, in my little experiences about relationship with the opposite sex, I come to find out that a lot of people in my generation go into a relationship for the wrong reasons.

And through my interrogation with few of them, I hear things like, “I want to go into a relationship because my friends are in it”, “I need money to keep body and soul, “I need someone to pampere me like a baby, “I need someone to make me happy,”” I need that guy in my life just because he is Tall, Dark and Handsome (TDH) and I need Tender, Loving Care (TLC) as a lady” , to mention but a few.

However, getting into a love relationship has little or nothing to do with the above reasons but it’s about maturity in all ramifications of life and getting to know onesself.

Few questions like, what is my purpose in life, “what is my temperament and what is my love language”, should be answered before going into a relationship and the essence of a love relationship is marriage! sweetpeppersdeli.com/survey

Don’t go near it if you are not ready and if you do, your sense of judgment will be messed-up! What do you think? Let me have your own take on the matter