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‘We Struggled To Have Kids For Over 4-Years, Everyone Laughed At Us’

by Cami Ezenwa
Wife

– Banky W

After my wedding, my wife, Adesua and I got to the point where the desire for a child became an idol. Every month if her period would come, she’d be crying, she’d be depressed, she’d be upset and all that.

We did IVF (Invertual Fertilisation) 3-times and it didn’t work. We spent money on this struggle to have a child but it didn’t work.

My wife and I became a laughing stalk in the society. My family members laughed at me, my friends, and almost everyone I knew laughed at me behind my back. Some called my wife A Barrēn woman, and I was sad because she let the mockery get to her.

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So one day, I called Adesua and said, ‘I don’t care if this child we’re looking for comes today, tomorrow, next month, next year, in the next 10-years, or never.

It’s okay, let’s love ourselves and trust God. Then we stopped worrying and a couple of months later, we got pregnant just like that. Whatever you’re seeking, seek God first and the thing will come.

 

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-Adapted from Quora

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Cami Ezenwa is a Writer, Editor, Publicist, Biographer and Journalism Trainer
He has worked with the Daily Times, Daily Independent, Financial Standard and Business Television to mention some.
His ongoing Corporate Communications Master Class training series equips learners with credible hands-on skills for effective Media Relations, Public Communications & Corporate Affairs amongst others.
He can be contacted via 09165809519 or 08180335778.

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