Three Errors You Must Not Make As A Lady This Season

By Cami Ezenwa

As a lady, there are three errors you must not make this season. Doing so would amount to cutting your nose to spilling your face in a most callous and regrettable manner

And please note, dear ladies, that this admonition is by revelation, following a dispassionate assessment of circumstances that tend to work against ladies fulfilling their dreams.

One of the three errors you must not make as a lady this season: don’t handle it like any other in the past: commit it to prayer.
There are peculiarities with seasons, turnings in the spiritual realm that occur only in epic periods like Christmas, Easter, New Year. Those s who understand, align with such turnings spiritually, usually recording amazing results.

You must understand that God Himself imbued it with good tidings of great things. So many reconciliations go on in the yuletide, many gifts are shared, grand offers and proposals made.

Another of the three errors you must not make as a lady this season, is to refuse to expect your unique package of blessings. In other words, be positive-minded. There are packages with your name on it. Believe me, some made it a prayer point: “O God, help me not to miss my visitation, not my package of blessings this season”.

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Plainly, life-changing opportunities like job/business and marital proposals would be placed on the table this season.

Spinsters, first and foremost, and others who treasure the values and resources God expended making them, will seek to deploy them to maximum advantage this season.

The birth of the saviour of mankind, Jesus Christ, implies the coming of good tidings, to those who expect it, who prepare themselves and keep watch. The shepherds got a part in the good tidings because they were “keeping watch”. It will take an alert and prepared person to recognise and take advantage of an opportunity.
As a lady, note that many bridegrooms are in town, ready to make or consummate their choices.

Two of the most popular seasons to pick a wife in the south of this country for example, are Christmas and New Year. You are probably to add the Iriji, Owu or Okoroshi masquerading festivals and your colourful cultural calendar is complete . They are fertile grounds for nuptial initiations

Households make grand preparations to receive and entertain guests these periods, and maidens become a showcase helping to serve such guests. Don’t make the mistake of locking yourself out.

Many prospective suitors not only savoir the delicacies and cultural fiestas but are also on the lookout for marriageable materials serving them

Alluding to the season providing a showcase for ladies, during her growing up years in Okwu Ogbaku in Imo State, Maurice Azunna said:
“The girls in the village would have invested time and energy rehearsing cultural dances for presentation during Christmas. A maiden who had good upbringing and could dance, was certain to get proposal from suitors”.
Also, launder your dresses, tone your skins, generally prune yourself in terms of total appearance.
A toned skin, whether chocolate or dark, is prepared to shine fortth. Even if it is this once that you will give your appearance such a treat, it is worth it.

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Roseline Iwunze, a mother of two told our correspondent, how her Ezinihite Mbaise clan was usually colourful, during the yuletide in those days, also witnessing many Igbankwu (wine carrying) ceremonies.
“My elder sister met her husband from neighbouring Aboh, where they had gone visiting during Christmas. In fact, the suitor was ready to present the marital rites right away,.
She said the man was swept off his feet by her sister’s elegant festive appearance.

So of the three errors you must not make as a lady this deason is to leave your total appearance unattended to.
“The reason is that you can’t tell who might be looking out for their lost ribs”
Some ladies may not get married this season yes, but a serious relationship may develop.
“During the season, you are bound to meet many people of different classes and philosophies”.