The Type Of Lady Every Guy Yearns For

BY IDERA ELUWANDE IDERA

Some like them curvy; a figure eight kind of girl; some like them slim and sexy, some like them tall, some short. But we’re not discussing the physical attributes; rather, our focus is what guys really want in a lady asides all the side attractions.


14) GOAL DRIVEN
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Every guy wants a lady that is goal driven. A lady who can set her goals and set out to achieve it. A lady who set out plans and take necessary steps to put everything in place. That kind of lady motivates her guy to be a better person because he doesn’t want to be anything short or less.



13) INDEPENDENT THINKER:

You see, it is true that a guy wants his lady to talk to him about everything, but don’t let us get it twisted. They also want a lady that thinks for herself, that can make matured and good decisions without consulting them, they find it attractive.

They want a lady who is opinionated and stands for what she believes in. They don’t want a lady that will always agree with what they say, it is good for a lady to have a mind of her own.

Holding a mature and constructive conversation with such a lady will be so easy.


12)NO MAKE-UP LADY:

It is not every time your guy wants to see you wearing make-up, look natural. There are days you decide to look bare, a lip gloss will do. They see transparency and realness because it shows you love your skin, and you’re comfortable in it.

11) CALM GIRL

Every guy wants a really chill girl, not a control freak. They want a girl that will relate her feelings in a subtle way, even if she’s upset, not a girl that nags always. A calm girl will always win the heart of her man a million times over.


10) WITTY CHIC:

Don’t you just love someone with a good sense of humour. So also, guys love ladies with very good sense of humour, trust me, it adds spice to the relationship.

9) CARING:


Call him, drop text messages once in a while, ask how his day was, take him out, give him a treat. Don’t expect him to do all the caring, nothing stops you from being caring too. Surprise him once in a while, appreciate him.



8) INTELLIGENT:

Guys do not want a dummy or an empty head, they want an intelligent lady who is knowledgeable. A lady that engages in a conversation and is sure of what she’s saying. You never can tell, you get to chill with your man and his friends, he will definitely be thrilled when you are able to hold a good and meaningful conversation with his friends.



7) BOLD:

A guy wants a lady who can speak her mind without jittering or fear, a woman who is bold enough to express herself without fidgeting, in a calm manner though. Your guy might not tell you, but he’s proud of you because it shows how bold you will be outside.



6) SHOULDER TO CRY ON:

All guys wants a girl that understands their mood, that is always there to listen and not just to talk. Guys have feelings and emotions too and they really want you to listen to their thoughts, opinions and understand their emotions, it makes them feel safe with you.

5) SOCIAL:

A guy wants a lady that knows how to socialize when the need arises. A lady that will go out with them to to social gatherings like dinner parties, get acquainted with other people, interact and effortlessly grow circle of friends. Trust me your man won’t let you go.



4) ROMANTIC GIRL:

Every guy loves a lady that is sweet and romantic.. Learn how to be sweet not only in person but over the phone or via text, you can make him feel your presence by the sweet words you say you him over the phone. Hug him, throw kisses, peck him, hold his hand, put his head on your laps,look into his eyes,smile at him… These little things create a bond.


3) GOOD COOK:

Guys do not want to be going to Mega Chicken, The Place, Dominos all the time. Every guy wants their lady to make a nice and sumptuous meal once in a while. As they say, the way to a man’s heart is through is stomach. Therefore, ladies sharpen your culinary skills.



2) RESPONSIBLE LADY:

The number one quality that attracts a guy is being a responsible lady. To be a lady that is goal driven, and wants to achieve her purpose in life, it starts from being responsible. It not only attracts a good man or helps you keep your man, it also helps you become a better person yourself. Definitely you won’t get anything short of the best.





1. GOD FEARING:

No guy will tell you they want you to be God fearing but sincerely, they all want a lady that puts God first, that let’s the fear of God guide her actions. A lady that knows how to pray to God would definitely know how to pray for her man’s success.