My Ex-Husband Deceived Me, Abandoned Us When We Needed Him Most –Eucharia Anunobi

Popular Nigerian female actress, Eucharia Anunobi has shared a heart-touching story of how her erstwhile husband deceived her into marriage, only to take a walk when she and her late son needed him the most.

Well, in the course of becoming famous, I met my late son’s father.

Unfortunately my parents didn’t find him completely worthy, they felt that he was not that academically sound for me. But then I liked everything that he used to do to my body and I couldn’t think. And nobody could take me out of his hands.

When he eventually did try to meet my parents, my father said that he was not qualified because academically, he was not up to me as it were, But I felt if you could give it a push, he could become better.

And then he was also not that financially buoyant.

But he was all over me, that he was going to become the man that I would dream of, and that he would make me proud.

And I think I then told him that my genotype is AS. Because I had always known that my genotype is AS. I did ask him to go and do his genotype

He did and he now happened to be AS. And that when I now said, we cannot continue this relationship.

He convinced me and said baby, he believed things would turn around the other way, that he doesn’t think we will give SS birth, and that he is also trying to check, that some people could get lucky and have a baby and it would be AS and not SS.

That I should not leave him; where was he going to start from? That he loves me so much, that he would be there, that he was never going to leave me bla bla, that he would be there.

He convinced me and we continued

So we had my son

Eucharia Anunobi

Just before my son was one year, he fell ill and I took him to hospital to check his genotype they said he was SS.

So I started the battle of my life.

Then Charles turned against his own son.

He didn’t want to relate with my own son, because I had to work. I was the one taking care of the bills

I was the one paying the rent. I was the one doing everything. I still held unto the marriage believing that it would alright, that we would be fine but instead he would be going out.

I always had two maids. If I go out and my son had crisis, Charles would just  abandon my son.

I remember I went to Lekki to work one time; my son was just about 4. That time, the hospital that we used to use was Duro Soleye on Allen; they have his file and everything

I spent millions on hospital bills. Charles never brough on naira.

Charles Eku you know what I am saying, you know if I am lying against you.

Then I went to work

-Eucharia Anunobi

His own cousin had come to live with us his name is Chinonye. She called me and said, uncle is parking his things.

So that was how Charles Eku parked his things and left and said, that he can’t deal with a child that is SS.

This was the same person that convinced me to stay, the same person that said that he would be there through thick and thin, that same that my parents said, Eucharia this is not the person for you , that was how he abandoned my son and I wasn’t even home.

Looking back

Yes, what my mother and my father saw with respect to my late son’s father, they were right.

But because of the sexual intimacy we already jad unduly I was blinded. I actually didn’t see the red flags

2. Someone’s who didn’t as it were, have a skill

Whose academic level wasn’t up to mine. And who was not also generating income

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Those I ignored thinking I can beef up. You can’t put in someone what they did not put in themselves.

God said I will give you a help meet for you in the book of Gen.

You are bringing something I am bringing something so we come on a path and meet and we relate on the possibilities of what we came with. That’s the meaning of a help meet – So you bring something I bring something

If a partner is not bringing something, the weight will be on one side.

So he didn’t brings anything . I am sorry I have to say this.i didn’t want to talk about it because he is gone but just so people can learn.

He knows. If I had thought about it deeply then,

But you know, out of youthful exuberance and sexual intoxication, because he was good, I probably would not have been in that relationship.

I didn’t listen to my parents. I overlooked wisdom which is God and I thought with strength, with my power, with my ability, I could help him.

Eucharia Anunobi shared her story with Glitch Africa