I Brought Her Overseas But She Dealt With Me -Naija Man Cries Out

A Naija man has let out an agonising lament, how a woman she brought overseas as wife, eventually dealt with him, making him return back to Naija empty-handed.

The man who altered English and pidgin while sharing his experiences in an interview trending online, warned men against making his mistake, as not to regret as he was doing.

“This my wife, I did everything for her. Like somebody I picked from the gutters, carry am come Malta, help her

“I told her, please don’t make friends with anybody, just dey go work and come back.

“She start to dey make friends with people.

“Na there she take learn say she get feminine rights; he come understand the law.

“She dealt with me. Everything I ever owned in Malta was seized”, he narrated.

He said since there was nothing to do given that the law in the land was supportive of women over men, that he had to return back to Nigeria literally empty.

Recapping the situation before the last straw that broke the Carmel’s back, the Naija man stated:

“Before I say A, she don say ABC, inciting me

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“I am an African. I believe that you can humble a woman, but there they have wings, you can’t. Small thing, ‘I will call police’”

He said he even went to prison in Malta because of the incident and served a 14 dayterm in prison before being let off the hook.

“As I dey like this now, I hate women.

“Instead I go do any good thing for woman, I go throw am away.

“If it is not for a man, I am not doing it for anybody because any thing you do for a woman is waste; you just threw it over the bar.

“Somebody I picked from nothing, from the village; now, look at where I am. I dey Lagos but I don’t envision myself coming to Lagos by this time.

“I have plans for my life and everything I want to do, but because I married somebody…

“They told us that the woman will compliment you, the woman will help you achieve your goal, but my own finished me.

“If you know me in Malta I was a very popular person there, but the thing is that I couldn’t stay again. “Everything has been stripped off me

“if you be man, no carry Nigerian woman go abroad. She go useless your life”.

He said the incidentally that there was nothing in her behavior before the travel that gave her away.

He said the moment she came over to Malta however, and saw other women, she became a different person.

“As I dey like this, I don’t have joy, and I cannot marry again. I will remain like this till 200 years when I will die.

“No woman wey their character good. You know the people wey their character good? Poor people.

“When they poor, their character go good but when they see life, them go change. That’s how women are generally. Woman go useless your life”.

Asked who could have engineered the woman like that, he responded:

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“The mother is her engineer. She will call me and be saying rubbish.

“When I took her daughter, I just laid foundation in my house, she said I should leave the foundation and come and build in their compound.

“she said because the husband has not built and they were staying in her husband’s brothers house, that I should come and build in their compound and that was where problem started.

“I cannot marry any woman again”